BIG LOVE

This is the true measure of love, when we believe that we alone can love, that no one could ever have loved so before us, and that no one will ever love in the same way after us. -Goethe

This quote is on a plaque that has been sitting where I can see it on my bookcase for nearly three decades. I love this quote because when it comes to love and our closest relationships, it is important to believe that we have somehow mattered in this life time.

Big love comes in the day to day living as well as through enjoying the wonderful traditions we've created as reminders to celebrate life, transitions and the Love we offer ... to believe that we mattered in some small way in the grand scheme of things.

4 Steps to BIG LOVE in Your Most Important Relationships!

1- MEDITATE UPON LOVE! Any problem in your life would simply disappear if only you would love more. Loving more is not about a clingy, needy or controlling love. Big Love is more about loving for the sake of loving. It's free. It's a "I don't need anything from you" loving. I've created a Free Flash Online Movie to for you to watch as often as you need, to remember who you are and who you came here to be ... and that's Love. Grab a cup of something warm and "take 3" minutes to reconnect with yourself at: www.YouAreLoveMovie.com

2 - YOU ARE LOVE. And as such, you are here to be the Love that you are. To attract love, you must simply "be" love. One way to do this, is to reach out and do something for someone else. If you are too self-absorbed with feeling that you aren't appreciated or loved enough by the people in your life, then it's because your focus is on "lack": I'm not enough, I'm a victim, nobody loves me, etc. Certainly it is most important to love yourself, and please do so, for when you love yourself you are coming from your innate wholeness. There is nothing lacking in you that making a decision to just be an expression of love won't give you a "love rich" life.

3 - YOU CAN'T HAVE AN ATTITUDE & KEEP IT A SECRET! Behavioral Modification's #1 Rule is simple: Before you can change anyone else, you must first change yourself. What's getting in "love's way" in any unharmonious relationship, is: fear, judgment and labeling. To experience the Love that you want to radiate, what you must change is your attitude. What you must change to get a different result are the limitations you've put on others. What you must change is you!

4 - MASTERMINDING regularly with other like-minded people is how you get to have your specific heart desires heard and believed for you when you can't quite believe it and feel it for yourself. Having formulated your MasterMind Requests and received your "see back" from your partner, you can rest, content. Spirit is doing the work in all of your significant relationships to align you when you ask for, in the presence of another who will believe for you, when you can not believe for yourself.

Ask for alignment.

If you are not attracting the good that you desire in your life, learn to express love;
become a radiating center of love; and you will find that love,
the divine magnet within you will change your whole world ...
When your heart is filled with love you will not be critical or irritable, but you will be divinely irresistible.
Dare to Believe!